Year End's Resolution

Wow, in several hour, there are 2009 no more and there will be 2010. If it look backward, 2009 was very important to me, why? Because this year surely opened my eyes about lot of things, teach me a lot, and forged me a lot.

Well, what happened this year? These are some of things happened:

-Having fights with 2 friends. not only fight, but a cold war. (solved one of it though).
-Reclaim my sketching ability and my movie taste
-Learn photography
-Made this blog and twitter. Macro and Micro.

2009 also gives great impact to the world. I shouldn't and wouldn't wanna blab about it for it going to be too...

Anyway, anyhow, like Christmas, though it's been said many times many ways, Happy New Year!

This Christmas

Oh, it's Christmas already. What do you think of Christmas? For me, it's not about the present, the Christmas Tree, Santa Claus, Shopping Discount, or else. It's about love.

Well, for those who think Christmas is about sharing, they're right. But the most beautiful thing to share in Christmas. Love, brings happiness, happiness brings laugh, laugh mean joy, joy lead to inner peace. Isn't it beautiful, when all the people share love to the others?

One (Mother Theresa if I'm not mistaken) said that "when you smile to the other, you bring Christmas to them", so if you share or bring love to the other all the time, you gives them Christmas!

So, what are you waiting for? Share love in Christmas!

Merry Christmas (to everyone who read this stupid blog!)

Perihal BackStabber

Beberapa hari yang lalu, terlintas berbagai pikiran mengenai backstabber atau orang yang bisa-bisanya menikam teman bahkan sahabatnya sendiri dari belakang. Hal yang pertama kali terlintas di pikiran adalah betapa jahatnya backstabber itu, menurutku backstabber sama seperti seorang pengkhianat.


Setelah kupikir, kurenungkan, pantaskah kita benar-benar membenci seorang backstabber? Dilihat dari beberapa kasus mungkin, namun, sadarkah kita bahwa kita semua pernah secara sengaja atau tidak sengaja menusuk orang dari belakang? Hal yang serupa sama atau mirip dengan kasus ketika seseorang membicarakan kejelekan atau keburukan teman, sahabat, saudaranya di belakang. Pantas kah seseorang marah untuk itu?

Orang dapat berkata bahwa para backstabber dan orang yang ngomong di belakang adalah pengecut. Tapi, ketahuilah, jika pendapat mereka benar, maka semua orang di dunia ini adalah pengecut yang hanya ngomong di belakang.

What I learned today..

Um, well, today (11/12/'09) is the day I learned a lot.

1. do NOT depend on peoples who depends on you a LOT, because they have big chance to disappoint you.

2. Jakarta's best view comes when sky is dark. It's just, so beautiful.

3. never ever think that it's going to be easy, plan everything well

4. ice lemon tea+movie with long duration+strong Air Con= urinate a lot during movie!

5. 2012 is a bad with fuckin long duration provided with magnificent effect but irritating plot. Certainly can't understand why people get in lines to watch this movie.

These things was posted in my twitter account, but i think it's not a bad idea to repost it in my blog. From micro to macro? So what?

Remembering John

8-12-1980: One of the greatest songwriter on earth was killed.
He's John Lennon.

Imagine there's no racism
No black
No white
Only human, living together

Imagine no fanaticism
It isn't hard to do
No reason to fight for
And no anarchy too.
Imagine all the people
Living in peace.

You may say, you may think,
I'm a dreamer.
But I'm sure that I'm not the only one.
I hope someday you'll join us
and the world will be as one.

"John Lennon might only be a dreamer, but someday someway, people will understand and join his dream. He may be long gone, but his artwork will stay till the end of the world. "
- Tribute to John Lennon -

John Lennon 8-12-'80

Suicide Phenomenon

Ugh, sebenarnya banyak yang melintas di kepala selama seminggu ini, dan akhir-akhir ini, berita di Kompas.com bercerita entah tentang kelanjutan kasus Prita dan "tren" bunuh diri di mall. Setelah dipikir-pikir, bahas tentang "tren bunuh diri" saja deh.

Seperti yang telah diberitakan di koran, inet, dll dsb dst, dan yang jadi pertanyaan, kira-kira, kenapa sih hal demikian bisa terjadi dan dilakukan?

Kalau di pikir-pikir, seberat apa beban yang ditanggung oleh pribadi yang melakukan bunuh diri tersebut? Apakah tiada jalan lain? Ataukah mereka tidak ingin mencoba untuk mencari jalan keluar?

Tanpa niat menyinggung perasaan keluarga yang ditinggalkan, saya katakan dengan keras bahwa perbuatan bunuh diri itu sungguh bodoh! Hanya orang yang tidak dewasa secara mental dan iman yang akan melakukannya. Jikalau mereka dewasa, mereka pasti akan melihat secercah harapan dalam setiap kondisi, meskipun kondisi itu sangat berat.

Untuk media-media yang ada, tidaklah pantas bagi mereka untuk mengekspos kasus bunuh diri tersebut secara berlebihan sampai memasang foto-foto, bahkan metode bunuh diri yang digunakan secara lengkap, karena dikhawatirkan hal ini akan memunculkan preokupasi (pikiran berulang) bunuh diri, dan tidak menutup kemungkinan akan memberi ilham metode pelaksanaan bunuh diri.

So? Haruskah bunuh diri? No way. Di setiap kesulitan, seberat apa pun pasti ada jalan. Tinggal pintar-pintar kita menjaga hati mental dan pikiran.